SOMETHING WITHOUT NAME
" It is beyond love and hate, beyond feelings, a savage joy, mixed with shame, the joy of submitting to and withstanding the blow of belonging to someone, and feeling oneself freed from liberty. This must exist in all women, in all couples, to a lesser degree or unconsciously."

Lyotard, D. in Plant, Sadie; Coming Across the Future in The Cybercultures Reader; Routledge London and New York